tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8060007941844162869.post488865120009056157..comments2023-10-25T07:13:10.528-05:00Comments on [RePLAY]: Raw, honest and unfiltered...Noel Gigerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15810163138464683479noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8060007941844162869.post-35968305621227159452011-01-26T16:23:47.950-06:002011-01-26T16:23:47.950-06:00What you are feeling and going through is nothing ...What you are feeling and going through is nothing unusual. When you find out you are the parent of a special needs child, it sends you through a whirlwind of emotions. You grieve not because of the loss of a child but because of the loss of a way of life and the dreams you had for that child. I've felt everything you are feeling and I guarantee that you will not put all your feelings in check right away but you will come to grips with it all and you will learn to own the term special needs. You will find a new way and discover things within yourself that you didn't know was there.<br /><br />Here's a great post on the emotions of a special needs parent. I reposted it from a really great blog. I've linked to it as well.<br /><br />http://felinidelarosa.blogspot.com/2010/10/amsterdam-international.htmlCyndahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14163320728885938886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8060007941844162869.post-6396817239511232832011-01-26T13:04:32.893-06:002011-01-26T13:04:32.893-06:00Hey sweet pea...I know you don't know me very ...Hey sweet pea...I know you don't know me very well but I have a borderline retarded son. He was and is beautiful..even through all of the trials and difficulties. If there is one thing that I can say to you is let all those feelings out...yes you are going to be sad...yes you are going to hurt for the life that will not be the same as what you expect...when you are done with grieving...think on this...God makes us each who we are...we are all miracles and perfect in His eyes...stop beating yourself up because you have feelings that any mother would have...if you haven't read it ...read Joyce Meyers power thoughts...it is an awesome book...You will face many challenges but through Christ you can accomplish any thing...don't try to work out of your own strength...call on HIS...just know that there are many who love you and are praying for your sweet little family...you are a very special lady...I know god choose the perfect place for this little wonder...sending much love your way<br />TwilaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8060007941844162869.post-86786913800889030322011-01-26T12:27:55.866-06:002011-01-26T12:27:55.866-06:00Have you read this?
http://www.kellehampton.com/...Have you read this? <br /><br />http://www.kellehampton.com/2010/01/nella-cordelia-birth-story.html<br /><br />I know you probably have, but it's the first thing that came to my mind when I read your story. Beautiful, raw...just like a mother's love for her child.<br /><br />I'm praying for you sweet friend. <br /><br />AimeeAimee Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8060007941844162869.post-50454248469066420462011-01-26T11:25:05.125-06:002011-01-26T11:25:05.125-06:00noel i cried when i read you do get really upset a...noel i cried when i read you do get really upset and angry , the same way that i do on an almost daily basis about so much not just tatyana but everything. i also feel so bad for it all and selfish when i do it so i cry harder and get mad at myself for doing it. makes me very incompetant of being an attentive friend. i used to be that once. when taty died i became very hermit like and scared . very lost and unattached to stuff. huge loss of interest yet enough of a craving to want to do what i say i want to do then not do it that day it is time to. so much anxiety and fear and anger. <br />but i also know im not angry with anyone and my faith grew stronger too. <br />hey remember corky from "life goes on" ? that was my favorite show. very inspiring actor with ds<br /><br />i could not even tell aaron had it. i had no idea. i still do not see it, he looks like a normal cute newborn baby. so i was in shock when i read it on facebook. <br /><br />love you xxxoo<br />leahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com